I was having a really good conversation last night with an excellent friend, someone whose opinion I value highly. They mentioned that while reading my blog, they felt as though they were intruding, almost as a voyeur into my thoughts. I know some of the things I’ve written here would normally be put into a diary, a private journal; the thoughts I’ve put here are not as private as some would think. The really private thoughts I keep elsewhere, somewhere the world can’t see. The ones I’ve put out there for everyone to see are the thoughts I don’t want to keep. Writing them in a public place allows me to purge them; it’s a liberating feeling to get these thoughts out.
Expanding on this, I think there’s a delicate balance when it comes to sharing personal thoughts and experiences online. On one hand, it’s incredibly freeing to express oneself openly and connect with others who might relate to those experiences. On the other hand, there’s the awareness that once something is shared online, it’s out there for anyone to see, which can sometimes feel intrusive.
I’ve found that writing in a public space like a blog can be therapeutic. It’s a way to process my thoughts and emotions, to make sense of them. And surprisingly, it often leads to conversations like the one I had with my friend, where we can delve deeper into those thoughts and feelings, gaining new perspectives and insights.
Ultimately, I think the key is to be mindful of what we share and why. For me, it’s about finding that balance between sharing openly and respecting my own boundaries. And if someone else finds value or connection in what I share, then that’s an added bonus.
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